Comments on: And… another one bites the dust! http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/ Tue, 07 Feb 2012 05:19:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mona http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1360293 mona Tue, 19 Oct 2010 05:57:30 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1360293 reading all this feels like reading about myself...but i jus dont know how to wait for the right one in my surroundings where marriages are arranged and asked to chose from the few if u cant find someone yourself... if have not found the right man till now,should i settle with my parents choice or wait till my heart says...so confusing!!!:(( reading all this feels like reading about myself…but i jus dont know how to wait for the right one in my surroundings where marriages are arranged and asked to chose from the few if u cant find someone yourself… if have not found the right man till now,should i settle with my parents choice or wait till my heart says…so confusing!!!:((

]]> By: Sonal http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1295080 Sonal Tue, 02 Jun 2009 05:56:41 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1295080 Hi Anita I have recently started reading your blog and love your style and the natural flow your writing has. I liked this entry for the different angles that it has exposed and this topic sits open for discussion for ever and ever and ever.... :) I think its all about the attitude towards life. About wanting to be happy and spread the happiness. Single/Married..does that really matter? I am married with a 1.5 yr old baby. Its lovely. I was happy when I was single too. I think every stage of the life has its own beauty and grace. Nothing is perfect and wanting to make everything perfect only makes one unhappy. word like marital bliss, made for each other etc. are for books not for real life. After a point all these superficial things fade and what remains is the core...a companionship, a friendship. If thats healthy enough life seems beautiful. I am lucky to have married my best friend who follows a principle 'live and let live..' and give me a lot of space. Sonal Hi Anita
I have recently started reading your blog and love your style and the natural flow your writing has.
I liked this entry for the different angles that it has exposed and this topic sits open for discussion for ever and ever and ever.… :)

I think its all about the attitude towards life. About wanting to be happy and spread the happiness. Single/Married..does that really matter? I am married with a 1.5 yr old baby. Its lovely. I was happy when I was single too. I think every stage of the life has its own beauty and grace. Nothing is perfect and wanting to make everything perfect only makes one unhappy. word like marital bliss, made for each other etc. are for books not for real life. After a point all these superficial things fade and what remains is the core…a companionship, a friendship. If thats healthy enough life seems beautiful. I am lucky to have married my best friend who follows a principle ‘live and let live..’ and give me a lot of space.
Sonal

]]> By: Vamsee http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1278754 Vamsee Tue, 12 May 2009 10:51:49 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1278754 Anita, I have been a silent reader of your blog and love it. This is a great post and I love your colorful pictures. I sincerely believe that you should make the most of what life throws at you. If you are single, then embrace it....take advantage of your independence and go out and try everything you want to without stopping yourself.Become the envy of all your married friends. Become an Anita Bora....who travels, runs, bikes and has fun!! As for the perfect man.....it will be easier for him to find you when you are having fun and being happy! Anita,
I have been a silent reader of your blog and love it.

This is a great post and I love your colorful pictures.

I sincerely believe that you should make the most of what life throws at you. If you are single, then embrace it.…take advantage of your independence and go out and try everything you want to without stopping yourself.Become the envy of all your married friends. Become an Anita Bora.…who travels, runs, bikes and has fun!!
As for the perfect man.….it will be easier for him to find you when you are having fun and being happy!

]]> By: Subeer http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1273355 Subeer Tue, 05 May 2009 05:21:17 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1273355 On your question "where are the guys"? I would like to pose a question in return. Why is it that in the most populous contry in the world with a remarkably high number of young people on top of a male skewed gender ratio do we not have 'suitable boys'? I hear this often, and mostly let it pass but as u seem like the reflective sort, I thought you may find it interesting to delibrate. Passing thought; “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” - David Deida On your question “where are the guys”? I would like to pose a question in return. Why is it that in the most populous contry in the world with a remarkably high number of young people on top of a male skewed gender ratio do we not have ‘suitable boys’?

I hear this often, and mostly let it pass but as u seem like the reflective sort, I thought you may find it interesting to delibrate.

Passing thought;
“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” — David Deida

]]> By: Shan http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1271702 Shan Sun, 03 May 2009 04:54:35 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1271702 Its a nice way of putting things Anita, in life nothing happens until and unless we want it to happen. People do come to our life and love us, because we want that shoulder to rest and shed the tears. We the singles enjoy the singlehood, because there are some people providing us with resources to stay single, may be the kins or the friends or the job we love to do...imagine life without the thing you want most in your life, u must feel lonely, one needs to be very tough to face that.... Its a nice way of putting things Anita, in life nothing happens until and unless we want it to happen. People do come to our life and love us, because we want that shoulder to rest and shed the tears. We the singles enjoy the singlehood, because there are some people providing us with resources to stay single, may be the kins or the friends or the job we love to do…imagine life without the thing you want most in your life, u must feel lonely, one needs to be very tough to face that.…

]]> By: anita http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1269195 anita Thu, 30 Apr 2009 05:25:06 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1269195 @ Ujjwala : well said. it definitely does! @ Ujjwala : well said. it definitely does!

]]> By: Ujjwala http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1262014 Ujjwala Tue, 21 Apr 2009 17:00:56 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1262014 Hi, Enjoyed reading your blog and those are some great pictures! There is nothing more magical than attending a wedding,especially if it is of a close friend, no matter how much ur ideas have changed over the years, it makes u believe in love, fate & destiny all over again! Hi, Enjoyed reading your blog and those are some great pictures! There is nothing more magical than attending a wedding,especially if it is of a close friend, no matter how much ur ideas have changed over the years, it makes u believe in love, fate & destiny all over again!

]]> By: anita http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1258685 anita Fri, 17 Apr 2009 04:27:59 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1258685 @thej: thanks! @Rhapsody: thanks! and nice to know you related to it! @Manasa: yes, true. but it only works if the spouses have built that kind of a relationship over the years. in many cases, that doesn't happen either. @ kunjootty: okay! :-) @ Ravi: thanks! it's good to know that. but where have you disappeared? you married people never have any time I think! @ Anonymous: :-) yeah, when the stars align i guess! @ manu: thanks! @ Maddy: so it's not out of choice, i assume? :-) i am not sure about "happy endings" but i am sure that things will happen when the time is right. the sparks will fly! one can have hope at least :-) and it's something to look forward to. starry eyed, not anymore. but yes, hope... i will live in eternal hope!! @ Anjali: it will, it will! heartbreaks are painful but i think they are one of those necessary evils in life :-) @thej: thanks!

@Rhapsody: thanks! and nice to know you related to it!

@Manasa: yes, true. but it only works if the spouses have built that kind of a relationship over the years. in many cases, that doesn’t happen either.

@ kunjootty: okay! :-)

@ Ravi: thanks! it’s good to know that. but where have you disappeared? you married people never have any time I think!

@ Anonymous: :-) yeah, when the stars align i guess!

@ manu: thanks!

@ Maddy: so it’s not out of choice, i assume? :-)
i am not sure about “happy endings” but i am sure that things will happen when the time is right. the sparks will fly! one can have hope at least :-) and it’s something to look forward to. starry eyed, not anymore. but yes, hope… i will live in eternal hope!!

@ Anjali: it will, it will! heartbreaks are painful but i think they are one of those necessary evils in life :-)

]]> By: Anjali http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1257158 Anjali Wed, 15 Apr 2009 12:34:08 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1257158 I so sometimes wonder just like you... Is there really someone! Or am i so used to being single that i'm not sure if i want to explore the other side.. Then again i still want to share my life with tht special someone..If i ever find one.. Heart Breaks are so painful that i don't know if i really would want to give myself a second chance .......Why is life so confusing ?Why me is always a questions that i have wanted an answer for and never found..Move on they say ...There is hope they say...You will find someone they say...Everything happens with time they say .... Will it ever !!!!!! :) I so sometimes wonder just like you…
Is there really someone!
Or am i so used to being single that i’m not sure if i want to explore the other side..
Then again i still want to share my life with tht special someone..If i ever find one..
Heart Breaks are so painful that i don’t know if i really would want to give myself a second chance .……Why is life so confusing ?Why me is always a questions that i have wanted an answer for and never found..Move on they say …There is hope they say…You will find someone they say…Everything happens with time they say .…

Will it ever !!!!!! :)

]]> By: Maddy http://www.anitabora.com/blog/2009/03/18/and-another-one-bites-the-dust/comment-page-1/#comment-1256071 Maddy Tue, 14 Apr 2009 13:42:40 +0000 http://www.anitabora.com/blog/?p=575#comment-1256071 I too am a part of the Singles club and I do wonder why I am still single! I could relate myself to your description of R to quite an extent :D and I believe there will be a 'happy ending' for me and for all the rest of us in the club. I can't really specify what I'm looking for but I know I want to look some more. The sparks, the chemistry, the comfort - how can I give up on all of that and just settle? Am I asking for too much? Or am I heavily influenced by the movies and just want it to be perfect? I think somewhere deep down I am still eighteen and starry eyed and I have a feeling, maybe even you are :) Loved reading the post! I too am a part of the Singles club and I do wonder why I am still single! I could relate myself to your description of R to quite an extent :D and I believe there will be a ‘happy ending’ for me and for all the rest of us in the club.
I can’t really specify what I’m looking for but I know I want to look some more. The sparks, the chemistry, the comfort — how can I give up on all of that and just settle? Am I asking for too much? Or am I heavily influenced by the movies and just want it to be perfect? I think somewhere deep down I am still eighteen and starry eyed and I have a feeling, maybe even you are :)

Loved reading the post!

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