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Eating Out

Cut cake, but can’t eat!

So I had this strange expe­ri­ence yes­ter­day. Just as I was cut­ting my birth­day cake with a bunch of friends at Infinitea (the place on Cun­ning­ham Road), when the man­ager runs up and says that we can’t eat out­side food in the restau­rant. But it’s birth­day cake, we point out. No, he said adamantly, we don’t allow out­side food.

I was speech­less for a moment. I’ve NEVER come across any restau­rant that does not allow a birth­day cake to be cut and eaten in its premises. I totally under­stand out­side food not being allowed, but a birth­day cake?! Just the day before, I had cut two cakes at the 100 Feet bou­tique restau­rant with another bunch of friends. They actu­ally lit the can­dles and brought out the cakes for us. They did the same thing for me (bring out the cake with can­dles) at Coconut Grove a few months ago for a friend of mine.

I was espe­cially dis­ap­pointed because I’ve been an Infinitea patron for donkey’s years, I’ve called for Metblogger’s meets there and visit fre­quently before and after French class.

I didn’t want to cre­ate a scene of course. But for a moment, it did dampen our moods. This was the last thing I had expected.

Also, met Jace at Infinitea who’s posted about it here along with a picture.

Well, later in the evening, I asked if we could have our cake out­side the door and the man­ager finally seemed to have a change of heart and got us plates and spoons so we could eat the cake inside after our din­ner was over. So why all the fuss, I wondered?

Strange. Rules are rules, I know. But surely, one should exer­cise one’s judg­ment of the sit­u­a­tion at hand and not take rules to the extent that you put off your customers.

Discussion

12 Responses to “Cut cake, but can’t eat!”

  1. He real­ized this been an Infinitea patron for donkey’s years soon I guess :)

    Posted by Prasoon | March 7, 2007, 5:24 pm
  2. Strange…never heard of any restau­rant oppos­ing a cake from some other place in their premises on bdays/annivs…

    Posted by Mehak | March 7, 2007, 5:24 pm
  3. Belated B’day Greeting!!

    yes, some­times ‘ser­vice’ gets rede­fined to atti­tude for reputed brand hotels. per­haps they should be more cau­tious than before to ‘retain’ the cus­tomers their brand sucess­fully ‘attracts’..

    no mnay know styaing in busi­ness is tougher than open­ing it.

    Chao!!
    p.s. 100 ft is stone throw from my place, i need my piece of the cake now… :-((

    Posted by Rajesh | March 7, 2007, 5:39 pm
  4. Uh, that’s strange of them. I’ve done this for my son’s birth­day before (too old to have all that for my own, you see), and the restau­rant was glad to help us out.

    My knee jerk reac­tion would have prob­a­bly been to can­cel the din­ner and find another place before I cool down. But it was really polite of you to con­tinue with the pro­gram and ask if you could have outside. :-)

    Posted by Kousik | March 7, 2007, 7:55 pm
  5. I work in a restau­rant, so occai­sion­ally those “out­side food” issues pop up. We always acco­mo­date B’day cakes and stuff like that. It used to be dif­fer­ent when peo­ple would bring in Mc D’s or Pizza Hut stuff. Now we just groan inwardly about that. :P It’s one of those live and let live things.
    Get­ting a man­ager to aqui­esce was the key move. When you’re a reg­u­lar, he/she knows that keep­ing a good cus­tomer is bet­ter than los­ing one. It’s good busi­ness sense. Lean really hard on them, and you can some­times get a free­bie the next time you visit. (I never said that…you never heard it. ;) )

    –Robert

    Posted by R.A. Levin | March 8, 2007, 9:54 am
  6. In this case — Man­ager went on to stress the RULE b’cos some­times in life — @ the spur of the moment we speak rules and since we spoke it in PUBLIC we remain to stand on sin­gle leg to win the point , jus an ego issue for some ppl, may be the good guy(Mgr) was wearin that HAT that day, ITS ALL IN THE CONTEXT of sit­u­a­tion. May be Gandhi too can wear the same hat — It purely Depends !!! But Some ppl wont — they are LEVEL HEADED FELLA’s. Jus my thoughts. Any way @ the end of the day MGR to had the cake — tat’s wer we are teach­ing them the RIGHT les­son with a SWEET Pinch !!!

    Posted by Vinod | March 8, 2007, 4:17 pm
  7. Infinitea did that! — what a shame!!But I am glad they saw sense finally.

    Posted by usha | March 10, 2007, 7:55 am
  8. @ pra­soon: :)

    @ mehak: always a first i guess!

    @ rajesh: next time, piece of cake on me :)

    @ kousik: yes, i guess. but i didn’t want to be rude and spoil the mood for the evening.

    @ robert: i will keep that in mind. didn’t hear it from you though ;)

    @ vinod: yes, he had a piece too!

    @ usha: i know! and you know how much i like the place!

    Posted by Anita | March 10, 2007, 10:31 am
  9. In the US they charge a ‘cake cut­ting fee’ for the plea­sure of serv­ing the cake once the cake has been cut. They actu­ally charge this to encour­age peo­ple to buy dessert inhouse.

    Posted by Alo | March 11, 2007, 10:44 am
  10. belated happy birthday! :)

    Posted by Twilight Fairy | March 12, 2007, 10:38 pm
  11. Hi,
    Infact, last month when we went to Ebony we saw a lady cel­e­brat­ing her b’day with her friend. And sur­pris­ingly the crew gave the can­dle, came n cheered too. It was so nice of them.

    ~Har­sha

    Posted by Harsha | March 13, 2007, 6:33 pm
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    see the site of jan­u­ary month.

    http://www.myearthpeople.blogspot.com

    Posted by oceomac | March 16, 2007, 9:35 am

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